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Any woman, no matter her age, who gets pregnant could suffer a tubal pregnancy. Dating this much younger man made me see that I'm ready and open for something real again.

At the beginning of our relationship, my friends were concerned that his age automatically revealed his readiness to have a long-term relationship and plan a future together. I remind myself that no one can predict the future. He decided this time to accept it.

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People get pretty freaked out when they see an older man with a younger woman. Almost inevitably, age-gap relationships are met with varying degrees of disapproval—whispers, stares, the eyebrow raise. So how did we get here? For most of human history, it was normal and even expected for a younger woman to wind up with an older man. There are more examples of this than one could possibly count in history, art, poetry, music, and literature. In fact, most of us probably need not look much further than our grandparents to see age gaps that would be considered scandalous today. Granted, this was often because a woman desired the financial security of an established husband, and in turn, men desired a youthful, fertile bride who could bear and rear his children. But thanks to a broken glass ceiling and medical advances that have us living older and having babies later, neither finances nor fertility matter much in matchmaking anymore. So, the age disparity in modern relationships is dwindling. Today, the average age gap between married couples in America is around two years, and a found that people believe the ideal age gap is around four years. Allow me to risk a sweeping generalization here and say that most guys in their mid-twenties still embody all the unattractive characteristics of boys not far out of high school: beer pong, roommates, video games, crappy jobs, saggy pants, and all around immaturity. I have learned that many of these guys have no earthly clue how to treat women the way women want to be treated. But by and large, we live in a world of extended adolescence where males are not expected to be and act like men until much later than their fathers and grandfathers were. Cultural trends aside, there has always and will always be an attraction and appeal to dating older men. Plain and simple, older men bring a lot to the table that younger men cannot. Of course, there are exceptions to this as well—there are plenty of older men who are creepy and controlling and have a not-so-noble agenda. But for the most part, older men bring with them a deeper knowledge of how life, careers, and relationships work. We can all thank Taylor Swift for giving us constant reminders of how dramatic, volatile, and annoying young love can be. They can be a wealth of experience and advice, often because one can learn from what they have done rather than hearing about what they hope to do. And usually, older men are a bit better at old-fashioned chivalry and romance than younger boys. Maybe age-gap relationships are simply the logical outcome of a girl-power culture that has done so much to help propel women so far forward. But most of all, maybe we should stop judging and shaming each other and just be grateful we live in a country where we can date, love, and marry freely. Most young men today are the way they are because women have absolutely nothing to offer. Couple this with the nonexistence of chastity, and there you have it. Even before the fall, Adam was miserable… until God have him Eve. Throughout history men accomplished incredible feats, worked their asses off at jobs they hated, and shunned adventure for the sake of their wives and kids. Usually this attack on masculinity begins in the school system from teachers who absolutely cannot stand little boys acting like little boys. Is it any wonder these young men are so lost? They have no ambition because they have no reason to succeed, no family to provide for, and are told at every turn how irrelevant they are. Women vastly underestimate the power of their influence in society. A society of virtuous women begets a society of empowered men with something to live and die for. A society of harlots is much like the welfare system. There is little to work for, the challenge is mitigated, and the habit of expectation sets in until the status quo is a standard so low as to leave one astonished. We as parents are meant to be a moral compass, and not examples of sorry excuses. My husband is 15 years older than me. My dad is a good man, but emotionally unavailable to be a patriarch I can confide in. My husband and I learn from each other, but he does provide patriarchal guidance to my children and our family as a whole that I very much wanted as a youth and did not receive. He is wonderful, and still struggles with a few of the same things younger men struggle with, but with more experience-based wisdom. Maturity is, for the most part, a developmental choice that is not age-specific. I have met some very wise and emotionally mature youth, and some astonishingly childish seniors. After they married he lost a lot of his invested money. Her loss twice over, and the kids lives were devastated. There is nothing more glorious in love than seeing an older couple with a lot of years spent together, having weathered the storms of life, holding hands and still being in love. This is a love that has flowered and matured to a level of spiritual, mental, and emotional maturity that we who are young have no concept of. Phil once pointed out to one such prospective couple. After the age of 45 people age twice as fast. Energy dwindles, I have known several women in this type relationship that still want to be on the go, and the husband no longer cares to. Just be aware of the down side! If you want to be with some pretentious twat who wears a suit every day and takes you to stuffy French restaurants or whatever, there are plenty of age-appropriate guys who are into that too. That the author recognizes such a thing laudable. A man has to do with responsibility and dignity, not beer pong and games. The most brilliant of rebuttals. Moral Relativist, not lowering yourself to the intellectual level of we simple Christians. Women still look for the golden paycheck and men still look for the pretty young thang. You should have stopped after acknowledging that men look for youthful and fertile brides and women look for men who can build them their nest. Well pickings are going to be even slimmer when you realize most men are checking out of marriage. Its wrong either way. Its wrong becuase of morals values too. In past -We had slaves too -does it mean we should have slaves today??? Its same thing like prostitution -for the money nothing else.. Age is less relevant. Women may live a bit longer — decreasing nowadays — but they tend to age in appearance and attitude much faster.

Recently, I read a blog where a separated, late-40s woman stated that she wanted advice on how to land a much younger man — say, late 20s or early 30s. But I'm also covering up the pain of an unwanted divorce. I liked that aspect of our north. I felt like I was racking up new life milestones every day, and couldn't imagine relating to anyone younger than me — and so I became fixated on dating older guys, because I thought it was the only way I could find someone who would be social enough to make me happy. No, there is not. I considered it a hell of a jump-start on life. Well, over the time that I knew him, it was more and more clear to me that he was such an absolutely incredible human being, and I realized that I solo to actually be with him in a relationship. This guy i am with makes me laugh, makes me smile, always has something good to say to me, never talks about the age difference, i was uncomfortable with it at first, felt dirty, felt ashamed of myself, but then met up one morning and said, the hell with this, i dont want to be afraid of happiness, i dont want to be afraid to love someone because of what people might think. It was 7, 11 and now 9 years difference. He is the kindest, most u, funniest individual I have ever encountered.